The Truth About Lies

Is there truth in Lies???..

Lie, as one sees it in the society is a 'SIN','A BAD HABIT','ANTI GOD'.Yes, lies are indeed bad and I am sure that you all would have heard about the positive lies which are useful for others in one way or the other.There are also harmless lies which are also lies but they don't have any drastic effect on anybody.Now as we know about all these lies, why are lies so imminet in this society even after all these thoughts about lies say that they are bad??First of all what and why a lie? A lie is a escape sequence that people create when the truth is not as tasty as the lie either for the concerned party or the counterparty way, what happens is that the truth gets hidden.But no harm intended and no harm caused.Truth can be sometimes bitter so we use lies to consume it.

A lie can be SELF oriented also.Self oriented lies are called motivators.When you say "I CAN MOVE MOUNTAINS' its a lie you say to yourself but see the value or the power of that lie.It can do wonders for you.So is it that lies are more powerful than the truth itself? NO and YES.No because a lie can also fail.Yes because, a lie can do wonders.It is not that you have to lie all the time.Keep truth as the default and lie as an exception but raise the Exception more often than not.Remember, telling a TRUTH is easy (there are exceptions) but its very very difficult to LIVE WITH A LIE.You have to know all the situations wherein the topic of your exception can arise so that you can be prepared for that.But truth demands courage at that time and you need not worry about the same afterwards.So which is more challenging???? The LIE of course but it should be of the harmless for anyone kind.

Lie can be a hobby, a game or even a challange if you take it in a positive way.Its all about the mind.When you are determined that you are going to lie, there are two things that one has to make sure one is that it doesn't harm anybody including himself and his dignity.The second one is that ones mind should be sharp.There are people who can bring out any lie but once mastered one can be unstoppable.Wit, is most important when you lie.Also truth can come in handy.When you deliver a lie, mixing some percentage of truth in it will make the combination simply irresistable to most people.The speciality is that the lie becomes more believable and authentic.When covering lies, usually one has to use a lie.But the best thing would be to use truth as an ultimate cover as most people like to see the cover rather than whats inside.

Finding a lie is pretty easy.The liar wont look at you when he delivers a lie or any aftermath of the lie either.But this is limited to an amateur liar.If he goes past this stage because of the counterparty's inability to detect, its very difficult to identify.But still you can be alert.A liar always has to think in the background when the topic of concern comes into the conversation. If you are really concerned about the authenticity of any matter, bring about that topic more than once and carefully observe the suspect he will be restless or too keen to answer.Finding a lie also needs a lot of practice and courage.